The One Who Is Never Here but Always Has an Opinion

Your sister lives four states away. She calls on Sundays and tells you what she would have done differently. She was not there for the decision and she was not consulted because there was no time. You do not say that. You say you will keep her thoughts in mind. And you sit with the particular exhaustion of being critiqued by someone who has never had to carry the weight they are critiquing.