When Your Family Loop Does Not See It

Your cousin called to say she wanted to help and asked what she could do. You told her: call on Tuesdays, just check in, send me a note about how he seemed. She said she would, and asked if you could send her a reminder each Tuesday so she would not forget. You had asked for one thing. She agreed and handed you back a task. The new post is about what happens when the Family Loop cannot see the scope of what you manage, and what to do about it.